Boy troubles
Im 14 and this boy who i use to like is 18. Last year when i was a freshman and he was a junior i use to like him. i thought he was kinda cute and i wanted to get to know him better. well, this year i began hanging out with him in the morning at school and i realized he was not my type. i dont like people touching me and he kept trying to hold my hand, sit me on his lap, hug me. i mean i was just SO uncomfortable! I was estactic when the bell rang. then, i started avoiding him b/c i just did not want to see him again. but i ran into him at the school library and he just started to rub up on my arm and i told him to stop. and he said you dont like me touching you and i said no. but then he kept doing it! i felt like throwing up! it was such and invasion on my personal space. i dont know if he thinks im trying to play hard to get but i just do not like being around him. i get a bad feeling, ya know. if someone doesnt respect me and my space i just dont want anything to do with him. any advice to get him to back off? i dont want to be rude or anything but i just cant be comfortable around him. Thanks for reading.
Hey, im 14 too!!!!! NO ONE should make you feel uncomfortable like that. Make sure you tell him exactley how he makes you feel. It is possible that he just does not know what is going on. If he still does this to you, then you should tell someone. It is sexual assualt. I hope that everything works out and keep me updated if you need anymore help!! <3
yeah, now i regret not listening to my sister(their in the same grade, both seniors) when she told me to stay away from him. Im so stubborn!
Ha. i know how you feel, i can be pretty stubborn to sometimes! i hope that everything has been ok and that it all worked out! <3