i'm bisexual.

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I've been Bi since i was 12. I'm 15 now. I haven't told my parents. Most of my friends know i'm bisexual but i've lost some friend because of it. Some girls mess with me because of it high school is painful. my parents are religious and they won't like the fact that I'm half of the rainbow. My sister won't like it. My brothers won't like it. No one will.
I don't know what to do anymore. I've changed so much since i was that age. If i were to tell my parents one day how will i tell them i like girls and boys.
will they abandon me? what will happen..

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well, i am also like her, and my whole family know's about really good, because i am so out there. I do'nt care what the whole fucking world's saying.

 
 

I'm so sorry!! I can't imagine what that must be like, I am out to my whole family,and they all okay with it!!
I don't have answers to your questions, but I would love to talk to you and help you about this.
if you are comfortable posting your e-mail, and you want to talk......
I'm not saying I will have great answers,but I'm great at just being here :-)
I am not out to some of my friends, because I'm afraid it will be weird between us, and I don't want that.

I wish you all the best!!

 
 

hey im a lesbian & my life didnt change when i came out but i can help u & give u some answers...

ok u say u lost some friends?? then u know they were never real friends. u dont want to surround yourself around ppl who cant except u for u.

well i know it seems like the whole world will be against u but u will soon learn that they will come around your there child & they should love u unconditionally no matter what..

tell them one at a time mom first or the coolest one lol i would say ease it in. & just tell them that u like girls as well & tell them its the person u like u dont really look at the gender its just who makes u happy be honest & strong about it & they will respect u more it takes alot of courage but onces it's out it's out & u will eventually feel better & everything happens for a reason whatever happen just try to think positive & dont beat yourself up so much..i hope i helped & if u post again i will try my best to help again good luck & be strong =]

 
 

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Well I don't live with my parents but my aunt is a very religious person. When I told her I was bi she hated it and she started with the bible.I knew she wouldn't accept it but I just wanted to be honest. I didn't care what she thought about me after. Its your life so don't put it on hold for anyone else.

 
 

Wow i am so shocked that i found another person like me. I am in the exact situation and i have no clue what to do i wanna tell my mom so bad but i know she'll probably kick me out. I told my younger brother who is in the 7th grade and he sometimes black mails me with it and my older bro knows too. I am currently with a guy and have been since 1/19/09 mu friends know that i am bi and i have lost friends cuz of it but tell u the truth losing friends doesn't worry me, friends come and go but family is forever. I have to hide myself everyday because my mom would never except it. If i tell her when i am older she can't kick me out but she will probably never speak to me again. My boyfriend knows and he isn't one of those sick pervs who thinks girl on girl action is hot. He supports me and that's probably all the support i can get from anyone, well him and my friends. My uncle and i once got into a huge fight because of this whole situation, i was standing up for LBGT and he hates them and i never talked to him again until now and even then its still pretty akward between us. Just remember u can alwaysz talk to me, i know what ur going through. xoxo_ gigglyheart01850