OASIS utilizes a dual retreat and mentorship program to offer the students of the Durham Nativity School opportunities for confidence building, character development, and fun. Run by a collaboration of students from Duke University, the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, and Elon University, the Retreat Program implements two retreats each year. These weekend-long retreats give students the opportunity to engage in action-oriented and reflective activities designed both to excite and challenge the students. Past retreats have focused on geocashing, canoeing, high ropes courses, rock climbing, and archery. Each retreat also has a theme, and throughout the weekend, participants listen to a number of interactive talks about that theme given by different speakers. Students also engage in a number of reflective activities to help them realize what they have accomplished, and what they can accomplish in the future. Of course, the retreats also involve a number of other games, competitions, and pick-up sports games that middle school boys enjoy. At the end of each retreat, OASIS works with the Durham Nativity School to coordinate a reflective Essay Contest into their English curriculum. Students write reflective essays based on the retreat’s theme, their experience on the retreat, and what lessons they took away for the future. The winning essay is published in Duke University publications.
The mentorship portion of the program offers more sustained contact with the Durham Nativity School students. As part of this program, DNS students come to Duke University’s campus every other Friday for 3 hours. During this time, participants and leaders from Ubuntu Living Group at Duke University participate in a fun activity related to what they have been learning in class. Past activities have included scavenger hunts orienting students to Duke’s campus, a tour of the award-winning Duke Smart Home, and bake-offs that require students to convert, add, subtract, and multiply fractions. After the activity, participants use their Duke Student ID Cards to enjoy dinner at one of Duke’s on-campus eateries with their Duke student leaders. Often times, “Duke Celebrities” from the basketball and football teams will even join us for the day.
These mentorship programs not only allows Duke students and Durham Nativity School students the chance to interact and learn from each other, but they also make Durham Nativity School students feel as though they are a part of the Duke Community. This elevates their self-confidence, urging them to continue working hard in school so they can one day become students at a University that they already love.
OASIS members also participate in independent activities with the Durham Nativity School. For example, many of us tutor weekly at the school, working one-on-one with specific students struggling in certain subjects. Two of us have also produced a full documentary project of the school (http://durhamnativityschool.wordpress.com). At the heart of OASIS is a very deep personal relationship between our members and the students, parents, teachers, and administrators of the Durham Nativity School. We as individuals take a personal interest in the well being of the school and its students, and are eager to get involved in any way that we can to benefit them.