My story
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I am 20 yrs old....
When i was 6 yrs old i had to go live with my uncle, aunt, and cousins cause my mom was beating me all the time and i had marks all over me so they took me away from her..
When i moved in everything was fine....but one day when my aunt went to work my uncle was watching me and my cousins. I got in trouble and he told me that i could either kiss him or get a spanking...well i was young and i didnt think anything of it so instead of getting a spanking i kissed him...well this happened everytime i got in "trouble"...when i told my aunt what happened she sisnt belive me she just thought i was trying to get him in trouble...well it fanily came down to him touching me in places i didnt like and i told again...the same thing happpened...so i would cry myself to sleep...then one day he went to far and held me down and raped me and when i told my aunt she sisnt belive me...so i ran down the road and told my best friends mom she called my dad and he called the Child Servies and they got involed and they gave me back to my mom...nothing really happened to him until about 5 yrs ago when he done it to my cousin...my aunt woke up and found a condom wrapper in her bed....knowing everything that i told her about him she called the cops he is now in prison for 50 yrs for sexual abuse on a minor (2 counts).....
My other story is much like that....
When i was 9 yrs old and finally got to live with my mom again she re-married and my step-dad moved in with us for about 6-7 mths everything was going good until one day my mom went out with her friends and left me there with him....we were playing a game and he pulled out his penis and told me to touch it i started laughing and told him no way thats gross....he got really MAD with me and forced me to touch it then he would ask me to sit in his lap i did but when he started to pull my panties off of me i got scared and ran from him but he caught up....he held me down and raped me...then he made me get in the tub and wash up and get dressed before my mom got home.....my mom was high off of crack and all kinds of drugs....when i told her she acted like it wasnt a big deal...this went on till i was 12 yrs old and i finally told my dad....lets just say he was really mad.....
i have more stoies but not about geting raped i was abuse in my past relationship but thank god i got out when i did.....Now i am with the most amazing guy and i told him my stories and it has made me a better person...i hope that my story helps you deal with what you need
thank you for taking the time to read,
god bless you all,
Tearesa
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I'm sorry. You should have never went through that. I knwo how you feel. Just stay strong.
Thats really a bad thing to go throw. I'm glad that now you have a person thatll always care for you . No kid should ever have to go through that. Just member to always stay strong.
" Be the change you wish to see in the world"
Im speechless.
Why does God premint these things to happen?!
Im truley sorry.
This hurts me deeply.
And to go threw it TWICE AND get beaten.
NO ONE diserves that NO ONE!
God will bless you deeply in your life.
You had the tough way.
And i know thats unfair but lifes like that
But it will come together especially for you.
It makes me think how lucky i actually am and how i should stop complaining over the small things.
Because theres kids out there like you when you were small and we need to stop that.
Me and my best friend want to let you know
we love you (even if i dont know you) and well be praying for you.
God bless.
I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I don't know if you are the kind that want simpathy or theydon't but your story is really inspiring. We need to educate other people. Help them. Maybe we can save another person so this dosen't happen to them.
All the best,
Tara
I know i've been through it myself and its a horrible thing to go through. I didnt say anything for years. I finally told someone at my school and they did something about it. I regreat not doing anything for so long.
Wow!
I dont really know what to say!
IM SORRY,
!
-Joeyy<3.
Okay in your first story, your uncle deserves ALOT MORE than JUST 50 years. I'd say for life plus 150 years, sounds ALOT better to me. And the SAME goes for your "step-dad". What kind of people, or monsters in this case, would do that to a 6 or 9 year old? I'd probably say death row would be best for these people..50 years just doesn't seem long enough for what they did. And I'm sure your dad was more than FURIOUS, but I'm curious..Why didn't you go live with your dad after what happened with your uncle? I just don't understand why Child Services would give you back to your mom KNOWING she has beaten you before, and that she was high on crack at times. Unless they DIDN'T know I mean, then I'd understand. And your Aunt should've done something SOONER if she knew what had happened to you. And the guy that had treat you badly should've been put in jail. And I'm sure you've realized this, but God has been with you your WHOLE life, watching over you. And keeping you safe. Your truely blessed. But I am terribly and truely sorry, for what you have gone through, no one should have to have go through what happened to you, not anyone. Hopefully, God will return soon and we can all go home, where no one can hurt us like you've been hurt. Your a very strong person.
wow that is really horrible that people didn't believe you and it was a good thing your friend was around... u are very strong and im happy you've moved on from the past and are sharing your stories with people so they can understand what's happening instead of keeping everything all up inside
LOVE,
KHAYLAH
~ Love&Hate, It's Just Fate ~
You are the strongest person ever, to have to go through that twice is just ridiculous. I know how you must feel, my step brother raped me when I was seven. It's amzaing that you have found someone that will treat you with respect and has helped make you a stronger person.
well at least you know that your dad will always be there for you.and you're luck that you found someone that truely loves you. if only you're luck was there when you were younger.