Sexting

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After reading some of the other entries under HIV&Sexuality I thought maybe my situation wasn't important enough to talk about compared to the other ones. But i rethought that and realized people should be aware that sexting isnt right, so here's my story. I'm 13 and I was dating this guy, we'll call him Daniel. So I started liking Daniel and after a week or so he asked me out and I was thrilled. For the first month it was heaven, he was the perfect boyfriend and everything was perfect. After about a month of dating he started asking about having sex and sending naked pictures to him. Of course I said no, I had never had a guy ask me that before and I would never dream of doing that. Daniel kept bugging me and bugging me and finally after about a month and a half of pestering I finally gave in and sent pictures of myself naked to him to get him to stop bugging me. The only person I told was my best friend, lets call her Shelly. About a month later me and Daniel broke up and me and Shelly got in a fight becuase he went out with her. Shelly told everyone in the grade about the picture I had sent him and he sent me. People's parents found out about it and then my parents did along with the police. The police came to my house and I had to give up my phone and go down to the police station with them. I was there for around 2 1/2 hours filling out a statement about what happened between me and Daniel since we started going out to when we broke up and when people found out about the pictures. School was terrible, some of my best friends wouldn't speak to me and everyone talked about me and called me a whore. I came home crying and saying that I wanted to move and change schools but my parents and some of my good friends helped me through it. Luckily the police decided not to press charges against me and Daniel for sending and possesing child poronogrophy and we wouldn't be registered as sex offenders. I am so thankful that no charges were pressed and it didn't go on my record. Everyone who is thinking about sexting or has someone asking for pictures, think twice becuase I don't want anyone to have to go through what I did.

p.s. Does anyone have any idea's of what I can do to support no sexting??

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support girls loving themselves more than selling themselves short.. i dont think that yur issue is unimportant at all.. girls especially need to love themselves more and stop selling theemselves out for boys attention..

 
 

no offense, but you were thirteen.
no one should want to see a picture of a naked thirteen year old.
That's just wrong.
There's nothing wrong with sexting, but at least wait until you're old enough to deal with the consequences.
Thirteen....that makes me sick.
No offense. I blame him, not you. Just don't fall victim to that kind of stuff.

 
 

Well you cant make no one from stoping from having sex the only you could do tell the about absentence and condoms. HIV can be prevented.STOP the spreading it.
Peace.Love.Happiness.

 
 

my x boyfriend john sent me a dirt photo and i deleted it so fast. it was really gross. But i mean sextexting is wronng i meaan girls and boys who can just put them out there like that is bad.

 
 

you should watch degrassi. the same thing happens to manny but its caught on video and her parents kick her out.

 
 

That must be really scary

 
 

get a group of friends together or make a ebsite and tell ppl about it im tryin to do the same thing actually

 
 

that's horrible.

for one, if a guy tries to have sex with you and you only been dating him for a month, totally kick him to the curb- that means he just wanted sex all along.

for 2, maybe the police should've considered your feelings as a person since it was your picture that everyone seen. that should be put in the same category with Rape Victims. I know a few girls at my school who got their lives ruined by sexting.
(and its bad cause the guys who are involved normally don't seem to care that it happens- in fact normally they seem to get popular afterwards )

Its funny how they invented camera phones for one thing, but in the end more sickos are using them to harm instead of help.

Hope you feel better hon, and if you don't- go get the girls on the school soccer team to give that jerk a good smash in the groin. lol

 
 

im a girl but i dont think that i would ever be comfortable selling myself to some guy i barely know...come on gurls get a wake up call ur better then that ur beautiful and amazing no matter what and dont you ever forget it...

 
 

Actually there is a new episode of degrassi where this girl named ali does that for this kid named jonny. I totally don't blame u. I can see u just wanted him to leave u alone. No one has the right to call u a whore and ur friends should have been there to help u through it not judge u, people make mistakes but u learned from it and u know now not to do it again. Ur not the only one who's been through this and i'm sure ur not the last but girls should really learn how to respect their body instead of letting guys pressure them. I learned that the hard way i use to let my ex do things to me and then i found out when i dumped him that he cheated on me, i felt like such a slut. I learned from those mistakes though and will never let it happen again. If u ever need to talk i'm here to listen. xoxo_ gigglyheart01850