My Volunteer Experience Helping Senior Citizens
By: Snigda Sur
YAC, Virtual Volunteer
One of the most enriching volunteer experiences for me was at Parker Jewish Institute for Healthcare and Rehabilitation, a place that welcomes patients and volunteers of all ages. Parker Jewish is a facility that makes sure that its patients not only receive the best medical care, but also the emotional attention they deserve. This is where volunteers step in, enriching the day-to-day lives of Parker residents, especially those whose relatives cannot visit them as regularly or as often as they might want to.
There are several group activities planned throughout the week. Saturday is Crossword Day. Residents on several floors are wheelchair-bound due to the nature of their medical need. Therefore, residents who wish to attend need to be wheeled from his or her room into the floor’s lobby/main hall. There, a recreational leader leads the event standing in front of a board with a blown-up crossword puzzle, and encourages participation from all.
As a volunteer, I helped wheel residents to their destinations, listening to their enchanting stories about times long past along the way. One man told me of how Downtown Manhattan, where I attend school, used to look back in his day. He told me stories about New York’s baseball teams, high schools, and our own local community.
In addition to helping residents travel, I also helped lead manicure events, when residents can sit around a table while volunteers and recreational leaders can file and polish everyone’s nails over a conversation. It’s a great idea because you can have intimate conversations with residents and learn of their personal tastes and desires.
But the liveliest event occurs on Sundays: music time. An entertainer comes in and sings all of the residents’ requests, as well as his or her own personal favorites. One pianist played the “Godfather Love Theme” on the floor’s piano to great applause and cheers for an encore.
The most interesting aspect of the job was watching residents interact with their family members and friends, the majority of which occurred around holiday time, such as Easter, Hanukkah, and Christmas. There is nothing that comes close to the joy on residents’ faces when their family is by their side. These are also the times when Parkers host dinners for the entire family. Along with the other volunteers, who were as young as age 13 to as old as age 21, I served foods to the tables, listened to more stories, and helped clean up before and after.
The experience taught me to appreciate a generation that might be removed from my own in years, but has much to give back in experience and knowledge. Parker Institute is definitely a place where I imagine I can volunteer throughout my life—and my volunteer director has even said many volunteers return, even after going away for college.
For more information, please visit: http://www.parkerinstitute.org/documents/volunteer.php.