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The 5 Types of Dating Abuse

Relationships can be complicated. Dating abuse is dangerous, and if you or a loved one is in an unhealthy relationship, you need end it. For help, call 1-800-799-SAFE.

Physical

Physical abuse is the most obvious type. It comes in the form of hitting, punching, slapping, biting, anything that hurts physically. If you see a loved one with bruises or scars, you may want to talk to them about it.

Mental

Mental abuse happens when one dating partner constantly puts down the other. They may call names, make threats, or accuse the other person of cheating. This is harmful to the mind, and is an unhealthy relationship.

ex: “If you leave me, I’ll kill myself.”

Emotional

The abusive partner may try to control the other’s behavior, personality, and life. They crush the spirit of their boyfriend or girlfriend. This is called emotional abuse.

ex: “You can’t hang out with him/her anymore.”

Sexual

Sexual abuse includes unwanted touching, putting pressure on someone to have sex, or even rape. Yes, it’s still rape when you’re dating.

Financial

Financial abuse has to do with money. If your partner is using your credit card without permission, putting your paycheck in their account, or telling you what you can and cannot buy, you are being financially abused.