I am a mother of 3 girls. My 2 oldest belong to my ex-husband and we were married for almost 4 years and things just did not work out. I felt as though I was always the one having to be the parent. I have not yet been able to finish school because I have no one to help me with my girls so that I can go back to school to finish my education, and now I'am with my youngest daughters father and we have been together for 2 years, and he is our soul provider, because I'am unable to get a job, because I have yet to finish my education. I have found that it is truly hard to be a parent and a good soul provider for not only for my children, but my family. I really want these young teens to realize it is really hard to be a parent and a provider for these precious young children. They need to know that once you become a parent fun and games are over!